1st May 2015

How to find the best care home - Step 2

First impressions.

Don’t make an appointment when you visit; turn up unannounced.
As you walk into the care home for the first time, what is your initial impression? Does it feel welcoming and comfortable?

Who is on reception or there to welcome you?


As you are shown around, are residents' privacy respected? Are doors knocked on before entering a room? Are residents asked permission before you enter their room?

Watch how the staff interact with residents - are they just ‘doing their job’ or talking to and engaging with residents?

In the communal areas, are chairs arranged in clusters for groups to gather and talk, or are they set around the outside of the room? Is the TV always on? What other activities are available in the communal rooms?

Talk to other residents to see what they are doing.

Don’t be afraid to ask lots of questions, make notes and take photos (this should be fine if you don’t include residents in the photo) of the homes you are visiting.

Just a quick update – I’ve now visited all but one of the Nursing Homes in the report, and we have decided on Gloucester House in Sevenoaks, which Mum is happy with. It is actually 5 minutes from my Brother’s house, but we didn’t even know it was there so we are grateful for Chosen with Care for letting us know if it’s existence! Mum moves in during week commencing 30th January, so she should be settled in in time for her Birthday so we will have a little ‘room-warming/birthday party’ that weekend. I think that being so close to my brothers house will help her settle in and feel at home. thanks so much for your help.